Not Getting What You Want

Now, one thing I hate is when people say that life isn't fair and that you don't always get what you want. I for one know that it sucks not to get what you want. It just isn't fun, especially when you worked so hard for it. I mean, when someone is upset because they worked hard for something and they didn't end up getting it, the proper thing to do isn't to tell them to get over it and stop being a crybaby. I mean, sometimes it may not seem like that much to you, but if a person put a lot of work into something and it didn't happen that would stink. I mean, just listening to them is good. You don't have to tell them to suck it up.

Now, there are exceptions to this rule. For example when someone is complaining about someone not liking them back, that's different because it's another person's feelings and it's not fair to blame someone for that. Also, when someone keeps repeatedly complaining about something then it' fair to tell them to suck it up. I mean, there's only so much that a person can complain about something. They should get over it eventually, and if they don't, it's fair to tell them to do so.

But everyone is gets upset when they don't get something that they worked really hard for. So it's not cool to tell them not to complain when they do.